just found it out. I have no idea why but all my 192.168.5.1 vmk's interfaces where gone on my esxi hosts, WTF.
just recreated them and genesis is starting fine now.
tried that but this box is not under support anymore as it's a demo box for customers.
We can always do a webex if you want.
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